Yeah and that's just how we do it

Cary has decided that we have an "open relationship."





NO, this does not mean we are seeing other people. Seriously? We just got engaged!



Allow me to explain. Cary has determined that an open relationship is one in which you share pretty much everything (possesions, friends, titles, talents). So, for example I can cook, therefore Cary can cook... and volunteer items to be cooked by "us."



I've decided I'm ok with this. I'm just looking forward to the day he gets his PhD and comes home and asks me for something....



Cary: Carla, can you pass me the salt?

Carla: Ummm, that's Dr. Carla.